Recent break up?

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Recent break up?

virgo1988

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My ex girlfriend says we will be nothing more than friends but when she texts me she ask who im with just wondering when I'm out or asks if I'm at work

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DrTruth
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You're her back up plan in case the guy she's seeing doesn't work out.

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Is this still revelant?
- virgo1988
  
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  Yea i heard of that one also
- virgo1988
  
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  Honestly I’ve been feeling very down and depressed I hate this feeling I can’t run away from it. I’m going to go to the doctor and probably therapy. I feel so down :( :’(
- virgo1988
  
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  She texted me that today
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- DrTruth
  
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  Respond with just, "OK". Girls go nuts and want you more when they realize you moved on. She's trying to find out if you still have feelings for her. Remember, she dumped you. I'd see other people.
- virgo1988
  
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  Got it
- virgo1988
  
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  What do i say if she asks how I'm doing
- virgo1988
  
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  Or where I'm at with who
- virgo1988
  
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  Or if she asks me to buy her something
- DrTruth
  
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  Cold shoulder bro. From the sound of it, she sounds like an insecure spoiled brat. Have fun with it. When she asks you to 'buy her something". Respond with, "LOL! You got a job.". Or where I'm at with who... "Friends". Give the idea you moved on. Some days, don't respond to text.
- virgo1988
  
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  Oh ok sounds good anything else I should kno
- DrTruth
  
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  Look up Leykis 101. Good rules on dating and how women really think.

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jsaffy
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She probably still cares about you. Which is good.

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- virgo1988
  
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  I'm confused honestly
- jsaffy
  
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  Honestly, don't try and read into it. Just take it at face value. She wants to know about how you're doing and if you're happy. Trust me, it is a trillion times better than what my girlfriend did to me. She broke up with me and then stopped talking to me all together
- virgo1988
  
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  Sorry to hear that

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jenew87 Xper 4 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you need space to deal with the breakup and even though she broke up with you she may want to keep tabs on you to see if you've moved on or hanging out with a new girl. I'd explain to her you need you space and take a break from talking to her to deal with how your feeling about the breakup she should respect how you feel. Most people don't realize it can be hard being friends with and ex immediately after a break up or just in general it's a big adjustment.

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