I know I'm going to get a lot of backlash here but here goes... I'm absolutely head over heels with a married man, and I too am married. He feels the same way. We both work together and although we've tried to keep our distance, we just keep being drawn to each other and it's an overpowering feeling. This has been going on now for over 7 months. I'm not unhappy in my marriage, at least I don't think so. Yet I want nothing more than to be with the other man. Basically I want my cake and to eat it. I'm not here looking for someone to say it's ok, I know it's not ok. I just don't know what to do now. I know that pursing this is so wrong and is the road to nowhere. I need a slap! And also to hear from people that have maybe been here before. I love my husband. I wouldn't say I love the other man, it's more lust. I thought it would have just fizzled out by now.