I have been with this guy for a couple months. He says he loves me we are going to be moving in together soon. I have trust issues I guess you could say I have been cheated on before and it makes it hard for me to trust someone. I saw a chat he was having with a guy friend not the whole thing just 2 lines that said what did he do on his lunch break and my boyfriends reply was " I fu'd her. I am afraid to ask him about it. Is there some way that I can tell if he's cheating on me? I don't know how to ask him I don't want him to get mad at me.. is there a way to know for sure if he's cheating?
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I think you need to just be straight up with him and ask him about it. Other clues that guys give when they're cheating is if they're sensitive about questions you ask them, never really leaving their phone out (so you can't get a hold of it and read something bad), sometimes they'll be really sweet one day trying to make up for the fact that they know they did something bad by cheating. All that type of stuff. You just need to ask him though, it'll only get more difficult as time goes on, and it will always be lingering in the back of your mind, so it's best if you approach him about it now.0