Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry if it comes off as harsh but since the long distance killed it and he doesn't talk to you or at least doesn't initiate, it sounds like he has moved on and maybe is ready for the next part of his life without you in it. My ex girlfriend and i broke up about a year ago after 4 months because of the long distance not working for us specifically (so not as long but still we loved eachother..) and it still gets a bit hard whenever i think about it too much. What i think is that you need more time (maybe waaay more) and you'll be as fine as you get. You will miss him the rest of your life that is just how it goes but believe it or not there is going to be someone who can make you not feel that anymore.
So... time. Look for distractions. Try not to think about him even though that is hard
Apologies for the bad English imma dutch boi :)
Most Helpful Girl
I’m a hopeless romantic and I know long distance relationships are very difficult and my boyfriend was struggling with the same issue and I too was struggling. He realizes that he loves me and wants to be with me so we’re trying harder to work on us. t I believe if two people really love each other, They can make it work no matter the distance. LDR are a lot harder than “normal” relationships and you have to put more work into them. If one person is trying and the other one isn’t, there’s no point. What I did was give him plenty of space, no texts, no calls and let him see what life is like without you. He needs to realize it on his own.