So...I'm going to give you the details, and you can just say what you want. Fyi, I think that this would be considered cheating by most...I just don't feel like it's too bad for some reason.
So I'm dating a the "perfect boyfriend". I love him, he loves me, no problems there.
But there's this other guy, who I work with, who flirts with me all the time. He talks to me on facebook as well as in person. He's asked me out, too, and it was a little awkward, but I told him I have a boyfriend so I wouldn't go out to a movie with him unless it was with other people too and NOT a date. He was like, "yeah I know you're taken, we can just be friends". So that seems OK. But we always act pretty flirty with each other, and I'm sure that other people think we like each other. I'm sure he still likes me, too. He says stuff like, "You're the only one who keeps me sane sometimes". I feel like he's still trying to get me, even though I have a boyfriend. And I don't have a problem with that, I mean, if he wants to try, go ahead I guess. But the thing is, I am sort of attracted to him...I'd go out with him if I wasn't dating someone who I know is better for me. I flirt with this guy, and we have jokes with each other, and he's fun to be around.
Should I keep hanging out with him? Or should I give it up because obviously I can't be trusted to keep it appropriate?
I guess I have some guilt about this, or I wouldn't be posting this, but not enough to override the fun of talking to and flirting with him. I know the rule is, don't do anything you wouldn't do around your bf/gf, but um...he wouldn't find out. Yeah, that's lame. But I'd never cheat physically or go out with another guy...
How bad is this?
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it's obviously good that you're asking this kinda question cos it shows you really care but I have to say you're kind cheating in my opinion, you're cheating as soon as you're doing something your SO would consider cheating if they were there. Is flirting cheating to them? ask them do they flirt with other girls, if they hesitate, tell them you flirt with other guys sometimes but that's all
just a note, I consider flirting cheating0