Ok Seriously no jokes. I was in a relationship 14 years... Since I was 15, it became very unhealthy for us both after HE cheated... I tried for kids 2 years. We been split 7 months now.. I can't move on... I don't know how.. Him and kids was my whole world... I got a job, I am about to start school, I have NO FAMILY limited friends, I am main provider of kids he does not take them at all, I dont want to care any more. I dont want any one else right now but I dont want to care about him... Any advice? I know Im PATHETIC 30 my first break up on a site like this but forgive me.
Most Helpful Guy
As cold as it sounds the best thing for you to do is not to give a damn this world isn't worth stressing over and we don't live long enough lives you either learn from the past and use it to grow or you lament over what is already done and you let it eat you up inside only you can decide what to do on this take a couple days reflect on your life and decide what's the best course of action otherwise you'll be stuck regretting this for the rest of your life there are no easy answers and nobody else knows you better than you so you gotta make this decision for yourself1
Most Helpful Girl
Forgive you for what? The fact of the matter is if you two wanted to be together that long, then you should have gotten married. That guy didn't care because you already gave him everything that a wife is supposed to give. I know most people don't want to hear this, but there is no law stating that what he did was unlawful. He can cheat because it's okay. He doesn't have to be there of he doesn't want to. But it will be at the expense of paying child support. If thise kids are his. If you want somebody to respect you, then you need to respect yourself first. Now you have 2 kids out of wedlock you will be forced to take care of by yourself. You did all you could do
I overall commend you for hanging on to the relationship because you do care. But again, premarital sex has it's consequences and this is one of them. All I can say is continue to raise your kids and do your very best.1
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