So I was dating this guy and we both describe it as 'perfect'. He decided to end it however, when it ended he was crying and clearly confused. I wish I could just walk away but I really can't. He has also made it clear that he never wants to lose me from his life. There are so many reasons to stay with him but I just don't know what to do. Any ideas?
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You two are so young that you should let it go. The biggest issue is that at your age, both of you have near limitless romantic options. Right now, everyone is available so you have more options now than you'll ever have again. Even if things seemed "perfect", I can see why he'd want to walk away and see other things. Similarly, you need to take this opportunity to do the same. Young love is strong because you're highly hormonal and everything is so new, but I assure you that there was nothing special or perfect about the relationship you two hard. When you're ready, go out there and date, be open to what others have to offer. Maybe things will work out with your ex someday, but in no way should you even remotely consider waiting around for him or anyone else.1