My boyfriend of 1yr has been unemployed for a year b/c he hurt him self at work and got a settlement of a large lump sum of money, so he didn’t need to work , plus he was waiting for his shoulder to heal from the surgery he had to get. Now the last 10k of the money he was going To invest but he had to spend it bc he got locked up unexpectedly & needs a good lawyer. He was picking up a substance from his friends uncle to bring to his friend as a favore and that’s how he got locked up. He has NOT been arrested b4 & he might serve sometime being it was a hard drug he got pulled over with b/c he was doing his friend a favor. Now he’s broke, with no job and may possibly go to jail for up to 2years I don't know. What do I do? My mom does not approve of him at all.
Most Helpful Girl
Well as much as it sucks, there is not much you can physically do other than provide support for your partner. He made a very poor choice and the fact that he has friends who does hardcore drugs is also another pretty big red flag. Is this someone you can honestly see something long term with? If the answer is yes, the you will have to accept and take it for what it is.1
Most Helpful Guy
If he has been good to you then you should stay with him1