And she is now with him
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes when the flame starts to go out so does the romance. And for a girl when that starts to go she will question/everything/ about her current relationship. It’s possible she decided she wasn’t in it for the long run with you. Sorry to hear it.0
Most Helpful Guy
If she changes you it's because she wasn't okay with you in the first place.
Nevertheless I also feel that it's normal for guys to feel insecure these days, if you don't know if your girls is going to exchange you that easily.
For example I think I have just scared my date away, and basically it was because I didn't really trusted her, after someone told me she exchanged her current crush for been with me.
I simply don't trust that dating scenario, and I think it's the same for other guys. Then you start acting cold, insecure, and somehow controlling.1