Husband promised me he would take time off work and wouldn't leave my side at the hospital when our son got here. I gave birth to him last Monday morning. My husband only stayed at the hospital for a couple of hours then left. He said he had to go to work the next day. He didn't give me a choice. He basically told me what he was doing. I was pushing all morning and I was fully exhausted. Especially having to get stitches because he ripped me pretty good. I also had to get 4 pints of blood because I lost so much. My mom who lives in FL came up to baby sit my 1 year old. My daughter didn't stay with my husband because he has no patience at all. I went home Wednesday morning. Thinking my husband is going to take off the rest of the week for the kids and me... nope. I had to do it all by myself. Since I've been in the hospital I had no sleep really. But he didn't care. Both babies would wake up in the middle of the night wanting a bottle or needed a diaper change and not once did he get up a do it. Anyways , I want a divorce and full custody of my children. I can't take it anymore. I have no help here, no family here, no nothing. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
A couple of hours is good enough, he did nothing wrong
Maybe he just couldn't get the time off on short notice?0
Most Helpful Girl
Put together an exit plan. You have kids now. It’s not as easy as getting up and leaving. You may want to have a conversation with your husband about how unhappy you are in your marriage and with his behaviour before you speak to a lawyer. If he thinks everything is fine between you, he isn’t going to change his ways.1