Everyone I know around me has been loved by someone else, unlike me. No boy ever came up to me and asked me for my number or told me I was cute or something else in that direction. I have to admit I'm very shy, but even those guys who know me better, for example the ones from my class, think that I'm weird (partially because of my sense of humour). It doesn't help either that 2 of my friends are popular and beloved by many guys.
The guys that I liked never liked me back. One of them was an complete ashole and made fun of me but acted all nice infront of others. Which is why I never told anybody for years, since I thought they wouldn't believe me. However he was my first crush and I never had feeling that strong again.
There is no one that ever loves me back but this doesn't stop me from falling for them. It is devestating and my heart hurts. I don't want this anymore neither can I do this any longer. Which is why I am asking what I can do to stop falling in love...
Most Helpful Guy
Awww it's ok sweetie. I had that happen to me too before when a girl I asked out spread rumors about me and what not so I know how you feel. I'm shy too and have been bullied severally in the past which leaves so many mental marks on me and I am terrible at starting conversations. The words were so hurtful. But a very good friend of mine who is very religious tells me all I have to do is have faith because the wait will be worth it. So I suggest you do the same. Just try to enjoy life by doing things you like and the right boy will come when the time is right😊.
I too have never been asked out by a girl, had a girl blush around me etc. I've only had one strong crush too at the age of 14 but she didn't feel the same way. I was devastated. So bottom line, stay strong, enjoy life and just wait. Love comes when you least expect it.
Most Helpful Girl
Never leave your house