We been too together for 6 month and everything was going great. We talked and texted each other every today. Made plans to go out. Then out of the blue, I've received a text from her saying that we should take a break because she so stress out and needed time to think and catch up in school work. I honestly don't know why she did this if it only going to make her stress out more. I have communication with her best friend and she been helping me out with this. Her best friend have told me that my girlfriend have told her she still have feeling for me that have never changed but she doesn't know what she wants to do. She makes me very happy when ever I see or talk to her. We joke around and express ours feeling to each other and I love spending every sec, hour, and min with her, but I honestly don't know why she did this especially out of the blue. She told me I didn't do anything wrong. That I make her very happy and I been a great boyfriend. What should i do? Im confused.
Why my girlfriend broke up with me out of the blue? How can I fix it?
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well as a good boyfriend, you support her in that decision. you agree that she should focus on what she wants to do, whatever that may be, and you move on. you could still love her but if she doesn't feel like a relationship then there's nothing you can do. the best form of action, move on, its really all you can do. and she should know when she made that decision that you have a real chance of letting her go too.1
If she needs time to catch up on school work, and she still has feelings for you, let her know you will be there to support her. Wait patiently for a bit while she figures out what she wants. She may be overwhelmed and unable to figure things out right now, and had to drop things from her life that have the least consequence. If you drop a relationship, there is always a chance to get it back. If you drop classes, there is a lasting financial and academic impact that is not easy to fix.
Give her time, and if she asks for it, give her space.
I hated hearing this ten years ago, but it's true. At your age, life is confusing, hard, and full of situations you have no idea how to handle.
To use old, cliche, but solid advice, if you truly love someone, let them go. If they truly love you, they'll come back. If they don't, they were never yours to begin with.
Give it time.1
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