I dated someone from my work. I know you're not supposed to do that but I ended up really liking him. Well we dated for a few months and he broke up with me, then contacted me by phone again and acted like he wanted to be with me again and now he just told me he wants nothing to do with me.
How am I supposed to deal with this? Every time I see him it hurts. even though he doesn't work in my department it's inevitable that I end up seeing his face on average once a week.
My heart starts pounding a little and I get nervous. It's been months. Should I just quit my job to get over this?
I've even been talking to other guys and ended up having to interact with my ex today and it just felt like the sky was falling and I feel like I lose all interest in other guys.
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Sounds like a hot cold relationship. To fix these kinds of matters you usually have to find the piece making it cold lest you two will be put on freeze regardless of how fiery, intense or passionate the relationship is. Think of it as every 3 weeks a fire grows and you two want to get back together, after 1 week all the sudden things are getting rocky. This usually has to do with something that's happening in which it's like throwing ice cubes on the fire. Slowly but, surely a break up is inevitable. If you want it to work out find out what's causing the freeze and if you can't find any answers; he's just using you when he's lonely.0