OK so me and my girlfriend have been together for a year need a half. Need its been downhill since the 2nd month. Things started off great, but then everything just got messed up. She was the first girlfriend I ever had so I was in that whole love stage. I gave up everything for her to make her happy, family, friends, everything. Need I think it gave her this feeling of power or something. Cause she developed issues really fast. She would get p*ssed over the stupidest sh*t. If I wouldn't text her within a few minutes after getting her text she would flip need ask if I had girls over, if we watched a movie and a girl was even on screen for a second she would flip out need accuse me of checking her out, if I go out with her need walk with my head up she says I'm a pervert cause theirs girls around me need I might see one(I know its pretty bad). So I need advice quick cause this past month its been the worst need I don't even want to be with her anymore cause all we do is fight. A few days ago I had to go to my gramas funeral an hour need a half away need we were fighting all day on the day that I was leaving. Need she told me if I left town that she was gonna get coked out need fool around with hella guys, record it, and send the videos to me. So I explained to her that this was family need I have to go. She got p*ssed need said she comes before my family need everything else in my life. So I went anyways need just said screw it. well I got back today need had 20 emails from her saying she's freaking out because I've been gone to long need I'm hurting her because I just left her for the funeral. I want things to end need I don't know what to do. If I don't respond to her ill feel like a d*** just ending sh*t without a goodbye or anything. but if I tell her how I feel she blows up need gets all emotional saying I don't love her cause if I did I wouldn't leave. So I'm stuck, and I need some advice. please help me out..
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Okay, I can see how this is difficult from your standpoint.
But, what you're in is no longer a relationship. Relationships are when two people are happy together, trust each other, respect each other and their family etc. Your "relationship" doesn't pass any of those tests.
She doesn't trust you, is controlling, disrespectful to both you and your family, and in doing all of that she has made you unhappy. Therefore the best thing for you is to break up with her. How you go about doing that is up to you, but I would recommend doing it in a neutral environment like a park or something. And drive separate cars too, because the ride home would be awful.
And whatever you do, if you decide to end the relationship, DO NOT back out at the last minute because of guilt and do not apologize the next day or anything. You'll probably feel like a d*** for a few days, but do yourself a favor and don't consider going back to her until you've had an ample amount of time to get over the initial shock of the breakup and allow yourself time to begin thinking clearly again
Hope that helps1