She should had got her act together for you.
You know what? The sad part to it, is that I _tried_ to let her know I wasn't particularly pleased about her disregard for her looks. I waited three months after her weight gain to make my concerns known to her (a mistake). I also made the mistake of "softballing" my concerns to her. And she totally jumped on it as me "being overly critical" of her looks; going on to state how I "hadn't had a problem during sex a few days before." I heaved a sigh because what she _wasn't_ getting was that it was _that_ sex session that made me want to talk about it. But she was too stuck in her emotions to realize it. NEXT mistake is that I put up with it, because of the SEX. My dick kept me around because I really didn't feel like looking for another girlfriend. But you know what ended us? One day when I was out with her and I noticed other guys were NOT checking her out. I was getting more sideways looks from women that day. All the looks seemed to say, "Why?" or "How?"
You was trying to be nice about it. I think I might had did the same thing. True your right it's better to tell thing's early on and not wait. Im assuming she probably let herself go because she figured she got you and she didn't have to work hard anymore to get you. True when walking around and when girls and guy's look at you weird being a couple then it's time to end things. But at least you try to give her some time to change. Sometimes girl's don't get it.
Yup, nail on the head! Happy to share dude. And thanks for the MH.
Your very welcome. Thank you for adding an opionion to my question.
That sucks she was controlling like that.
Yeah so much happier without her man
Technically since he didn't see the relationship as exclusive, he was never your boyfriend.
He should had been exclusive.4 months and meeting family is way then enough time to be in a relationship.
Right and the thing was he did see himself as my boyfriend. That's how he introduced me to other people and we had that whole talk. But then on the second hand, he also wanted to keep his options open. It was alll a bunch of crap I agree with you coolbreeze! I didn't want to put any more time into something that wasn't really going anywhere
He misrepresented himself to you and that wasn't fair or right. He should had been upfront with you told you from the beginning that he wanted to keep his options openIm glad you ended it early with him. Some girl's try to wait it out at least for 8 months to a year to give a guy more time. The longer you wait on a person the more time you waste. He should had kept things real with you. This is why dating gets tough because people don't know what they want and they waste other people's time.
He should had followed his heart and not listen to his mom.
Welp that's what he always did. Now he's ended up with a job that he hates because he did what his mother wanted him to. It's his loss, not mine.
Yeah true it is his lost. He seems miserable. lol.
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Wow man she tried to put pressure on you. Signing the least was extreme on her part.
That is crazy. Im sorry that you had to deal with that.
No worries. It's over now. At the time it was very scary but if he hadn't overplayed his hand and threatened them I'd still be stuck with him. That was like a slap in the face.
Some guy's are just crazy and want to be control freaks and possesive. He wanted a lot of control and power. Being around somebody like that is scary. I'm glad your not with him anymore. Threating the family is going to far.
It's his lost he should had faulted himself.
That sucks. Some guy's like to fight and argue and cause drama.
That was bad on his part.
Yeah not why i broke up with him though, he got mad at me for being mad at him and making him feel bad cause of the joke, and he got pissed at my friend for telling me and her boyfriend 🤷
That is crazy she did that.
Wow man. I hope your ok from that.
I'm bipolar. I just live with it. We would be together still if it wasn't for the fact she had kids. And I was really really absurdly horrible to her after the breakup. Love makes me stupid.
That sucks he moved away.
Wow man that sucks. Some people are just crazy. Im glad you got out of that.
That sucks he should had gave you space.
That really sucks.