I dont want to be public actually, because i dont think he would physically hurt me or kill me. and i dont wanna publicize anything if he gets upset, angry or whatever, and can't control himself in front of everyone.
But that's the exact reason why. If he can't deal with it in public. And talk about it in private. Then there's no coming back from that. Basically, coming from a sensitive guy... this is the best possible dialog between them. I've learned to handle myself. If he's a strong guy he will respect you.
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I am certain.
Say the bad part asap, don't sugar coat it or drag it out. Bluntness is the easiest, then you can start the apologizing and consoling after the fact, if he's up for it. I'd rather them just say it. "This isn't going right, I don't think we're right for each other... Something like that, then go from there. "I'm sorry, I really tried, and I know you did too, its just missing something... "
Thanks. I was thinking of the same, but thought maybe being too blunt may hurt him more.
It'll sting at first, but long buildup ones are much worse, too much time to think and try to salvage whats not there. That really sucks