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Guys are good or bad, but women are all the same?
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I used to wonder about this as well and even tried being an asshole and it never really worked. Honestly girls who like jerks usually are a bit weird themselves, so it works out for them.
There's a lot of girls though who don't and just want an interesting guy. Don't focus on nice or jerk, focus on interesting conversation.