I live in France and I am Turkish. I met a French guy and began to date with him but I have said that I am Maltese. It is because of some rwcism issues. However, as we are entering a club, during the ID control, he noticed my passport and understood that I lied to him. Then, he left me since I lied to him :'(
It was not an important lie. How can I earn him back?
Most Helpful Guy
Let it be. Give it a few days don't message him at all. Then randomly message him and say something like "Hey, I really liked you and didn't intend to lie to you. I'm not a liar, I was just uncomfortable in the moment when I told you that. It's not something I like to talk about. Let's give this another try. I promise I'll be honest with you."0
Most Helpful Girl
I am not from your country or his. I want to tell you, when you decide to start dating someone, even the little lie can screw up a person's trust towards another. My ex-told me he has to go to work that day when we planned to hang out, later I find out that he wasn't at work. He lied and told me that he didn't want to tell me he went bike riding with his friends. That one lie changed the dynamics of our whole relationship. I became a different person temporarily that I hated. The french guy, He left for a good reason, he knew himself too well.0