My boyfriend left his email up on my computer. I snooped looking for this embarrassing/funny email he said he had sent the other day. Found out he had cheated on me with another girl the day after we celebrated his birthday 3 weeks ago. I had taken him out for dinner and bought him expensive gifts. When I confronted him about it, all he said is that I never should have invaded his privacy. When I asked why he did it, or if he was even sorry, he wouldn't give me an answer. I broke it off, but I hate the lack of closure. We had been open about everything, he had even told me the day before I found all this out that I was the best thing that happened to him. Now I am left without any answers and just horribly confused. If the sex was great, communication was great, then why would he do this?
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Most people cheat due to their own personal insecurities. It's pretty often that they'll cheat because it felt good to be desirable in the eyes of someone else, so it makes them feel good about themselves, or because it was a nostalgic giddy feeling, having something new, and they didn't want it to stop, regardless of how hurt their partner would be. It's not always the fault of the significant other they're cheating on unless that person is making them feel extremely bad about themselves or being otherwise abusive. So it's on him and his issues, not you.0