I have a serious intuition that my girlfriend is cheating on me. It's really all I have. No real proof, just a gut feeling. And I want to know the truth so I don't continue to waste my time and relive my
past. So I ask what is the best way to ask her if she has been faithful to me?Without accusing her that is..How can I just simply ask her and is it a tell tale surefire sign that she is cheating if she gets defensive? Someone help. I can't live my life not knowing whether or not she is a whore in sheep's clothing
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just kinda bring it up..."i have a random question, have you ever cheated on any of your boyfriends in the past" if she says yes, ask if she regretted doing it...if she says no then ask "have you ever cheated or thought of cheating on me?" ... if she gets defensive, tell her to relax, explain your situation that you;'ve been cheated on before, that its not that you don't trust her, but you don't want to fall for her and then be hurt if there's something going on...she should understand how you feel and she should comfort you in a way to make you feel that its OK to open up to her and that she'd never do that...if she can't understand that then id say f it and find another girl...make it clear you're not accusing her, you're just sacred because your feelings get stronger for her and you just want to protect yourself...
good luck man, I hope for the best0