Most Helpful Guy
What the hell is going through your husband's mind jfc. anyways in the US you can file for either fault divorce or no-fault. depending on the state, a fault divorce means one of you had an affair, is cruel, gay, impotent without telling you before the marriage, etc. no fault is generally easier because many states don't require a reason if one person says the marriage is irreparable or if there just isn't a reason st all and both parties agree.
He shouldn't threaten you with him cheating or wanting you to feel manipulated. that's a shitty thing to do.
Most Helpful Girl
It can mean he is cheating on you. So that if ever you catch him cheating he can say “ oh but I had already told u “