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Cheating, verbal and emotional abuse, blatant disregard for each other's feelings.. sounds completely broken and unhealthy, and it may not be possible to fix. I was once in a long-distance relationship with a lot of "rough patches". Was it great when we weren't fighting? Yeah. But we were fighting more often than not. It's not healthy to stay in a relationship like that, and once I got out and nursed my hurts, I started truly realizing how badly it affected me. Suddenly, with freedom came a higher self-esteem, improved moods, and no longer the feeling that I had to stay on a strict schedule just to chat with someone. I was dramatically happier. I know girls tend to thrive on drama and shitty relationships, but you'll be much happier once you drop the fascination with drama and go for someone steady who treats you extremely well.