He gave me his word that under no circumstance would he go there again
Yet, there he is. Last time it was overnight. Looking like the same thing. I guess it's time to file for divorce? He begged me to take him back 6 months ago after his affair and I did because we had a really marriage in all corners. And we have two small children. But two weeks ago he was supposed to be there a few hours and I was supposed to come get him. He wasn't there when I arrived. I told him if he wasn't that I was leaving him. But he wasn't. I ended up picking him up the next day at a trailer park an hour North. We didn't stay separate for long. As he did the cry and beg and sorry for me to take him back. Now what?
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The amount of love you have for him comes into play here.
With our hearts it is never simple enough to just cut ties.
And move on.
It tends to leave deep scars.
He obviously has wronged you and hurt you in the past.
His current behavior certainly hurts also.
But where exactly do YOU draw the line.
Can you still sit down and talk about these things?
Is he being honest?
Do you still trust him?
If your heart still desires him even in the least bit, it is a great investment to keep going in love and trying.
Again, how much Love do you have for him.
Is it enough?
Guys here are going to tell you stupid things like that one revenge sex comment that will only further devstate your already emotionally tiring situation.
The same with just ending it so abruptly.
I'm sure it hurts.
Disloyalty is a killer.
Just hang on as much as you can and fight your side until you just can't anymore.
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