We were long distance for almost 2 years. After our 1 year he became more and more absent, to the point i called him like crazy and not once did he pick up or call back and i decided it was over without saying. I did everything i could for this relationship to work out and he didn't appreciate me or care about me. I dont understand why he dated me in the first place if our 2 years meant nothing to him. I feel like such a big idiot and i dont know how to cope bc i thought he was the love of my life and he said the same to me. I need clarity but i know he won't give it to me.
Most Helpful Guy
I am sorry. I mean to convey it to you in least complex way possible.
I’d say in the first place , you were his need not his eternal love. At times in ldr’s people , are emotionally there but still the physical absence gives space for new entrants.
Maybe he got someone closer fulfilling his need and you did nothing wrong so he does not know how to man up and talk to you.
Please don’t get confused it wasn’t the love of your life , life is better and with more beautiful things to come ahead.
Your sincerity deserves better. Let it slip darl , bothering with it will not help you reaching any conclusive point.0
Most Helpful Girl
Love sweety, is just a word... What truly matters is the CONNECTION. And what you would do or give up to maintain that connection that you believe defines the word love. Simple enough is... You can create a great connection with anyone if you really try. But on the same hand you can also lose a connection that defines that love if you choose not to work on it any longer... On his side. Maybe he connected with another. You have to ask him. Not us.1