This guy and I were “talking” a while back for about 3 months. He told me that he loved me, wrote a song for me, and wanted a hug from me after school every single day but somehow was too afraid to talk to me at school. We texted each other having the same “wyd” conversation day after day. I tried to get myself to like him as much as he liked me but we just didn’t have that connection and had nothing in common. Basically, I led him on and felt terrible for it. Things were getting out of hand, I told him that we should just be friends but he couldn’t get it through his head. It’s been months later and he still tells me he loves me and childishly touches me. He also gets jealous whenever I hang out with guy friends, I’ve told him to stop multiple times but he just won’t listen!! What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
If he is refusing to acknowledge your decision and discomfort, you need to get him out of your life right away. It doesn't have to be permanent; but at least until he starts respecting you and your boundaries. If he continues to make you feel uncomfortable, it might be worth it to tell a teacher or parent.
The fact that you 'led him on' does not matter one bit; you made up your mind, you told him to back off, and he's not listening.
Also, are you alright?1
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Most Helpful Girl
Well you have to be firm forget about coming off as a bitch you need to let him know that this is not okay and if he continues to disrespect you you'll have no choice but tell someone.1