My ex and I have been broken up for almost 2 weeks now and I have not contacted him, as we have broken up before and I usually give in and text him and that is how we start talking again. But this time I am not going to give him that because thats what he expects... But he has been posting snap chats of a girl he knows that I don't like, and liking tweets about being into someone. As well as liking tweets about missing ex's and "you will always mean something to me no matter what" and "drugs and alcohol can kill you, but so does loving someone"... so it seems like he misses me. But at the same time has liked tweets about moving on and letting go and letting go of toxic people.. and I just want to know why the back and frothiness. Is he trying to get me to talk to him?
Most Helpful Guy
If he knows you can see this then he's using it as a way of getting your attention. It is very. Very difficult for him to understand you can't keep giving in.
The one thing that really. Really does work is that you have to show your moving on. Even if you are not and it's just to show him you don't need him. If he can see some of your stuff start liking some guys statuses or pictures or even text a guy and make sure he can see it. If he does really like you he will be back in minutes or seconds trying to get you back because he will feel like you really are moving on but when he tries to get you back even after him seeing this still say no its over and ignore him for a day or a few hours. Only after that period of time calmly talk to him and he surely will give in0
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Most Helpful Girl
Im going through a break up too and yes my ex and i have been playing mind games. This is natural and isn't planned. You have to realize as well as me that your ex is not immediately in a plan to make you feel like shit bc it mostly means they feel like shit for losing you. So they do stuff like that. One day theyre happily single like me. And then there's nights i cry myself to sleep bc i lost my person. Emotions dont make sense in the moment. Only time and active behavior, is the real truth teller. Do what you need to do to be at peace. It may be crazy it may put you backwards, but all in all, a breakup is so you understand why you can't be together. So if you dont understand yet, go with the games cause everyone gets tired and learns the hard way. Only human0
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