I had an amazing, loving relationship with the man that fulfilled all of my needs. And he broke up with me. During the relationship, his trust issues became a real problem for us. 9/10 times we worked it out between the two of us and I was able to calm his fears. The reason he broke up with me is that he feels I betrayed and disrespected him. He went through my phone (which has no passcode on it and I leave it with him all the time) and looked at the texts between my best friend and I. And in those messages, he found a message where I was venting some frustration to my best friend. He had accused me of trying to make my ex husband jealous by using him and showing him off. Which is something I would never do. It made me so frustrated and angry that I messaged my friend to vent about it. And I said... if I wanted to make my ex husband jealous, I would have used my ex boyfriend. My currrent (at the time) boyfriend was very upset at this text. He says that I compared him to my ex boyfriend and said that my ex boyfriend was better then him. The only reason I said that is bc I would never "use" anyone I care about for any reason. I miss our relationship and what we had, but he's not budging at all. I want him back so badly. And I don't know what to do.