Me and my ex broke up recently and I don't know how it was so easy for him to just leave. Can someone help me understand?
Most Helpful Guy
Most likely he wasn't truly in love. Keeping it real, most relationships now are based on sex. Once the interest in sex (or anything that made him like u) is over, they just move on to the next one. Now, true and sincere love is not easy to find. Ideally, it appears once the couple knows each other well, and they share not only affection, but future goals and plans and ideals they want to achieve. It is clear this WILL take a lot of work. But once you get to know the other person so deeply, the relationship will be much more stable and worth of your time. So... Don't rush things2
Most Helpful Girl
Either it hasn't been easy on him but that he saw it as best to cut off contact with you so that he can move on. That does not mean it is easy on him but that he is trying to cope with leaving the relationship.
On the other hand, if it really was that easy for him then he probably didn't have feelings for you anymore, nor any respect in his approach. Count yourself lucky that he is gone then. Take this opportunity to move on yourself and be with people who do love and respect you and make you happy. Don't waste time or effort on someone who doesn't feel the same for you. You'll be just fine without him, probably better off too.0