Is it normal to feel like you aren't in reality? Just floating around through... a sea of utter shit? I feel nothing, I can't even cry anymore and i distrust everyone. I have no friends, family, just lost. How do you wake up and get motivation to get out of bed when every step ends up being a slip in shit.
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Yea heartbreak is no joke. Been down that road. I went through a period where I couldn't leave the house, even when the weather was beautiful and the sun was shining. One day I just got up & decided I want to get better. What helped me was my closest friends who always gave me an ear to hear me vent, I READ just about everything on heartbreak. I read up on people's experience from people who have had their heartbroken to the people who did the heartbreaking. Reading actually helped to know I wasn't alone, plus you can find good advice.
I took up new hobbies like hiking and photography which I still do and tried things I never done before like cliff diving which I also still do. I think the most important thing that I did was allow myself to feel the pain that I was going through instead of running away like many people do. I learned and understood so much about myself. You'll be amazed what you get out of it when you allow yourself to feel the hurt, but you have to be productive as Well1
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