- Convincing your ex not to break up
- No reaction
Most Helpful Guy
I didn't handle it quite right. All of my breakups. One I just let go when she moved because someone else was super interested in me.. another had been trying to get rid of me. Another I scheduled just the summer with and broke up at the end of it without much further talk.. another two dumped me because of a caring relationship with a previous girlfriend.. dependability and loyalty don't stop a gal from dumping you. Also one wanted to be closer to Jesus when I reintroduced her to church.. the one that my parents disapproved of ended up with 2years of not talking with parents and the gal.
It's devistating.. depression and all kinds of badness...
Most Helpful Girl
I used to be far less forward than I am now with break ups. Like in high school I didn't want to be the one to be the "bad guy" in the break up so I'd be a total bitch and make guys break up with me, obviously not awesome on my part. So when they'd break up with me I was really happy and relieved to be done with it.
I don't think I've ever been broken up with though beyond making those few guys dump me.
There have been a few times I broke up with them and it broke my heart. One guy was especially difficult, if I believe there was one person in the world for each of us I'd say he was "the one". Leaving him hurt me so bad to the point I didn't eat or sleep then finally all I wanted to do was sleep, it got really bad before I snapped out of it.
For years after ending it I still thought of him daily, little things would remind me of him or something funny would happen and I'd go to tell him but then remember I shouldn't.