She ignored it. She knows it bothers me...
Was it a bad break up?
Very bad. I tried to get him back (the wrong way) for several months. Just went through a lot family wise so I felt like I was drowning without him. Did every mistake I could make. However he eventually messaged me again, told me he misses the sex and we can't stay in contact even though he was the one messaging me (after he saw a picture posted of me with a male friend) so he was probably just trying to find out whether I found someone new...
Chances are if things were bad then he's probably just doing it to aggravate you. Knowing your sister would tell you. He probably knew it would bother you. Games... If you fight with an idiot they will only bring you to their level. And they'll win because of their experience.
So i'll do as I have done it during the last few months, I ignore it?
For your sanity it maybe best. Something that poisoned it's usually best just everyone go their own ways.
I sorta would ask him if he wants to talk so we can give it a better ending or give us both peace but I'm not sure if it would do any good or how he'd react
Closure is never a bad thing. Gives peace. My ex and I were better as friends than lovers. I hope everything will work out the way you want.
Welp she has a boyfriend who is all over er facebook. I knew he had ego issues but I don't know.
U look alike?
Not really, I wear makeup, she doesn't... I removed him and all his friends from my facebook a while back so I don't really get why he would do that. They only met once at a party nine months ago
Noo she didn't want accept it, she just told me that he added her. We live together.
He can't add her.. not until she agrees in fb... seems he's still interested in ur business and hasn't let you go...or actually is attracted to ur sister..
Argh, I don't know. He doesn't seem to want to be with me.. because otherwise he'd probably straight out tell me. He just requested to be her friend but she ignored it. I don't want to assume anything. I really want to talk to him but it's been so long and our last contact was awful xD
If it was me I just cry cry cry n get over him coz a relationship is like milk , if once gone sour u can't redo it...
That's very true. The problem were mostly the issues outside of the relationship that caused it to go bad... sadly he can't forget that and I can't forget the way he handled things. I suppose it could work if we sat down and talked about it like adults but unfortunately that's almost never the case
Yup... I always feel mourning n crying a while helps a lot... It brings strength in you to revive. Never carry the carcass of a dead relationship coz it will ruin you. Instead relax for some time be single n let time give it's surprises to you... believe me ull be taken aback.
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She has a boyfriend who's plastered all over her fb 🤔 I think it'd be inappropriate to try and date your exes sister but I guess everyone sees that differently...
He can still like her. LolIf that's not the case, then maybe he's trying to spy on you.
Welp he might xd I don't get it... why would he care if he doesn't want to be with me.
He probably doesn't care, he might just be trying to get a rise out of you or something.
Yeah that's probably it. I don't really get why some people are like that, but I can't help it. I might run into him at the gym, could always see how he reacts there
They just added her. Basically i wanted him back forever, nothing worked, I gave up. He kept throwing breadcrumbs and treated me like a child so I lashed out at him and told him to leave me alone. It's been almost a month since then. What makes me angry is that he apologized 10 minutes after seeing a picture of me with another guy - a male friend- so it probably wasn't because he was really sorry.I don't hate him but I want him to either be an actual part of my life or stay away for good, it's just been a mess and it drains me.
tell him what you just told me then and decide your next move after you get an response
During our last contact I told him to fuck off so I'm not sure if that might be a good idea. I really do like him but I don't want this mess again. Like how do you even start that 🙃
you could start by saying sorry for telling him to fuck off
I already did that. I texted him a couple days after that saying basically 'Sorry for overreacting but as you don't see me romantically or as a friend, I don't want the contact...'. He never replied to that. So I felt like it was best to let things rest even though I still feel awful about it and miss him. So it was quite awkward ro hear that.
ok well now you told me that i think its clear that however difficult it is you need to move on
Welp, I guess...
its your only option really so be brave and get out there x
Why is he even doing that then? ;-;
being a dick or just being nosey but nothing more