We had a very bad breakup and he has told me he is very bitter one week and now he says that the past is the past. I asked my ex if he wanted to get back together today to be a full time dad to our son. He said that will never happen and that I was a grind to be with but that he wants to see his son when he is not working (he works on an adhoc basis gets a call and goes)... he wants to come for days out and go camping with us as ‘friends’ but I do not feel this is right... He is not willing to commit to my son on a regular basis as he has said if he gets work that comes first... I am feeling a little confused as to whether I am being played (he does not need to work to live) and just seems to want to all the nice bits when he feels like it or am i reading this all wrong?