My ex broke up with me last week after a fun loving, serious relationship. He wanted the whole thing. Babies, house, savings, holidays.. that's all he ever spoke about. We had just started living together, moving into a new home shortly, taking a months holiday overseas together, and out of the blue, he says that he thought about for a day and his heart isn't in it anymore, he doesn't want to put in work that a relationship requires, and that he only wants to focus on making himself happy. I haven't spoken to him since that day, and he has now blocked me on Instagram, changed his profile to public and deleted all of our photos. Prior to our relationship, his social media looked the same way, and I believe he used it to get gratification. I was a very supportive girlfriend, and never restricted him, in anything. I'm struggling now to understand how I'm already a memory and he is moving forward, when I'm just trying to find my feet again. Boys, help! How can someone change like that?
The blindsided break up - calling all cowards. How do stop caring for someone so quickly?
What Guys Said 6
So a couple of different possibilities... One he was gay and couldn't keep up the like or recently found out he was gay. Two, he wanted all the things he talked about, but realized he didn't want them with you. Three, he thought that's what he wanted because that's the "ideal" thing society generally achieves for. Then he thought about what he actually wanted and realize he was talking about a dream that wasn't his. Four, maybe an ex he was still in love with came back into his life. And the final thing I can think of is him having some sort of mid life crisis.0
Yeah SOMETHING ain't right I mean to go from living together to see ya hit the bricks my guess is there is someone else and it may not be a woman maybe he's so very conflicted in his own ways internally and maybe has just began to come to terms with it or maybe he's accepted who he is and needs to have time to find himself I mean you foot go from wanting it all to GOODBYE is let him go he's DEFINITELY NOT OK WITH being with you and i know that REALLY REALLY SUCKS but better you find out now then 10 years and 2 or 3 kids down the road. Or I could be wrong just somethings for you to consider as you need to protect yourself. Good luck to you sweetheart0
Start caring for yourself1
Sounds like he was never into it just told u what u wanna hear! U definitely dodged a bullet there marriage etc wouldve been a disaster so try to move on..0
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