I broke up with my ex about two months ago, she was heartbroken, I was not. Anyway, one of my ex's friends is down visiting, I met her about a week ago, and on Friday we had a party for her. So, we got a bit drunk, and decided to go to a graveyard to watch the meteor shower. it took us about 45min to walk there and the whole time me and her friend were having an awesome time. anyways, we were walking around the graveyard looking for an open spot to lay down and watch for shooting stars. the whole time me and the friend were walking talking.. etc, every now and then your hands would bump into each other.. and it would get a bit awkward.. cause like, it was kinda obvious we were 'in' to each other.. any way, I eventually reached down and grabbed her hand and to my surprise, she didn't pull away. We had to hide it from my ex, so every time she would look, we would let go, Let me be the first to say, my ex isn't over me. We ended up sleeping in the graveyard with nothing but a blanket and our clothes. Me and me ex's friend were sobering up, enough where it was impossible for the alcohol to be impairing our judgment. We were spooning beneath the blanket, with my arm over her body holding her close. (much to my disgust, my ex was pretty much spooning me.) we were all watching the meteor shower all night long, and we were wide awake for the most part. eventually me and the friend were the only ones awake, or so I though, she was looking up at the sky, it was hard do distinguish whether or not she was looking at be through the corners of her eyes. anyway, I leaned in and kissed her on the cheek. She turned and looked at me. I couldn't tell what her expression was. Suddenly, I hear a voice behind me.. "Please don't, that hurts like crazy."... apparently me ex saw that kiss. and she didn't like it.
I want the friend, and I think she wants me, but she doesn't want to lose her friendship. I know that the #1 rule between girls is don't date your friends ex. So do I talk to the friend? or give her up. I don't want to give her up because honestly, I had more fun with her than ever had with my ex.
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k well that's a hard one. you said that you brok up with your ex about 2 months ago so its fine for you to start dateing new people your only suosed to wait like a week to 2 weeks b4 you move in on another paerson so your good in that area. as for the friend its gana be hard because that is the #1 rule as you put it. your best bet is to tlk to the friend and really make shur she wantss you because if not then so be it itll help you figur things out in the long run. but any way if she does want you, have her tlk to your ex if ther as good a friends as you say they are they should be able to tlk it out. who knws maybe shell be OK with it. its gana hurt her for a wile because it is her firned that your going for after your break up but its life... if the friend dosnt want to lose your ex as a friend and she doesn't want to tlk to her right now, id say just remain friends with her and dnt try to make anything more out of it for the time being. if its ment to be you guys will get together...i dnt know if this makes any sence sry if it dosnt.0
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