It made me want a relationship with him.. and he said he would think about if.. then he kissed me and then was cold..
We all seem to want what we can't have.. its a shitty trick our brains play on us. So i do understand
But pining for someone will only make him less interested. He will kinda keep the idea of you in his back pocket in case his relationship hits the skids. But even then he will have one for outside your relationship. YOU deserve more. I dont care of he is a Greek God. You need to find true love. It will happen if you just stop looking. And write him off. One day he will not even register in your memories.
My ex just did it to me.. he told me he made enough money i could of not work.. ans how we could of had 2 kids by now
Well you have my congratulation then, you've dodged a pretty big bullet then. The man couldn't help but being selfish and brag about his life and embellish the truth rather than acting mature about this.
Its just weird because he then started telling me rhat i can't date young i like older men.. he said I remember when i told ur mom i was older..
Yeah he actually created a second linkedin profile because i blocked his other one.. he was googling me
So since my ex told me he made enough money i could of not work.. ans how we could of had 2 kids by now
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, funny thing is, nobody knows what direction things would've gone if you'd stayed with him, maybe he only accomplished what he did because you weren't there, strange as it is, you could've been his motivation for getting his act in gear. And kids, that's never a guarantee, that can take endless trying in some cases. Don't worry about it much. He may not know how to handle success for a long period either, and may have just used it against you to control you as well.
That is true.. he wanted to help me get into his company and help me with some stuff with school work.. but im declining the offer
That's good, be successful in your own way. It's more gratifying
Tell me does he really of seemed to have a income of about £50,000 a year ( about the cash of two working people ) And you could of had two kids with anyone Do you even want two kids right now? He's a ex for a reason and sounds like prick tbh
Thats why i ask
... so what was the plan before it all fell apart? And who did the breaking? And honestly, even though he did, be the bigger person and just walk away. Like I said, an asshole who wants to make the other person feel like shit because they do (your boyfriend in this instance).I'm not your average person... I don't do things to hurt people... unless it's really bad and they think they can get away with it... which has only happened twice in the hundreds of incidents I've had.
without know details... still him feel like he's hot shit. Bitter people will be bitter. My buddy was like that. He was miserable and berated his ex. I'm surer he's not as bad as my friend, but just know that he's taking jabs at you and that he's being a child.
That's just from personal experience though.
I broke up with him because my grandfather died and he stopped talking to me. Told me that its not about me.. and that he had plans with someone else.. because i was spending time with my family.. plus he told me he was drunk the next day after my grandfather passed..
... yeah, just move on. Don't bother with him. If he want going to be there when you needed him, then outs wasted effort to get back at him. Also, I stick to my statement where he's just being a bitter asshole. My friend was the exact same with his ex. Told her what could have been... don't fall for it.
I guess im struggling because he kissed me.. and it was innocent.. he was holding my hand.. hugging me..
... yup, those would not make it easier lol. I don't know. Pulling that "this is what out could have been" card is a cheap, dirty move and serves no purpose other than to help you feel better at the expense of the other person (or that's the thought).Honestly, if just go with what you think would made you happy the most. If you make a mistake, you can always learn from it... this is all ideally speaking... in reality, its not so plain and simple as you have let me know lol.
Sorry im just so confused
Lol no need to be sorry. You have every right to feel confused. I'm just done guy offering his opinion to someone seeking it.You could flip a coin, write a list of good and bad... you'll either do what you think is best or what you feel like you know is the best for you. If you're thinking about the other person here, don't. Focus on you first.
Thank you so much. I appreciate at it
I hope I helped at least a little bit. Good luck.
Well my ex did this to me.. he told me he made enough money i could of not work.. ans how we could of had 2 kids by now
Exactly, nothing good can come from it. All it does is try and hurt you. Doesn't change anything for the better.
How long was this message? A sentence, a paragraph?
My ex just did it to me.. he told me he made enough money i could of not work.. ans how we could of had 2 kids by now.. like im still in shocked he said that
Well it sounds like breaking up was a good thing as you know how nasty and egotistical he's become.
I mean you can tell him how things are going in your life but the way you put it it seems like you want to brag and talk shit
Oh well ur ex is petty af 😂
tell him if he didn’t make 7 digits it’s not enough.
People only do this to hurt others and make them feel like they've lost a chance of their life. Which is bullshit :)
He also wanted to help me get a job at his company and help me with school work..
But he also kissed me