I reached out to my ex 2 times already and he was very mean and rude and straight up told me to get lost. Recently, 2-3 weeks ago I noticed him on fb blocking and unblocking me every few days. So, after 5 months of no contact I reached out again because I found out the real reason why we broke up. One of our mutual friends who’s his best friend she lied to him saying I sleep around and I am a bad girl. Anyway so I reached out to him clarifying the misunderstandings and he said that he’s moved on and he’s been seeing my status about him on my whatsapp and that he’s no longer interested. I was very hurt because he’s still not believing me and I blocked him from everywhere. Day later, I see he adds me from a different number to stalk me. He has two numbers, out of which I was only added to one. How do I know he’s stalking me because his settings are set to friends for status and pic and if I check that number through a different whatsapp nothing shows, only from my phone it shows because I’m in his contacts. So why is he still stalking if he’s not interested? Why doesn’t he want to get back with me? I really love him and want him back, I don't know what to do anymore! Please help?
Most Helpful Guy
Because he doesn't care so much about you. He cares to see who your next move is with. You may love him but you will get over him. He may think about you from time to time but if he says he's done with you but still checks out your stuff he is more concerned with what you're doing with others0
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Most Helpful Girl
He wants you to chase him. To him, he feels you did wrong and ruined the relationship. So, why is he going to work hard to get you back?
His first mistake is, believing others over you. That shows he had no trust in you to begin with. Anyone who knows their woman or man will defend them to the fullest and know what they are and aren't capable of.
I say, let him be. Whatever he wants to do, stalk you or contact you, let him be. He made a mistake of distrusting you over "he said, she said" and now he has to live with the fact he lost someone who was in fact loyal.
Find someone who cares to know who you truly are and not someone who gets to know you through others.0
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