after 3 years of dating, my boyfriend cheated on me.it hurt me badly but being the person I am,i forgave him.we continued being friends.i dated other guys but I still found myself sleeping with my ex.its been 2 years since the breakup,but we still have sex.its not an arrangement we made,but every time we together this happens.does this make me a bitch?i find myself full of regrets but it happens all over again.i still love this guy and he tells me he is going to marry me someday.m confused period.what to do?
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Umm you're single right? If you are then you're not a bitch for sleeping with someone that you chose to sleep with. You can do what you want to do as long as you take full responsibility for your choices and make the best choices for you. Don't be hanging on what he says, go by his actions. It seems like you're letting this guy take advantage of you, I'm sensing a little lowered self esteem here, but that could just be me reaching.
I can't judge you but I just don't see this as a good idea in the long run. here's why
1. he cheated on you. what a d***. you forgave him, that was your choice but forgive DONT forget.
2. you are continuing to sleep with him even though there is some emotional attachment there. that is not good for you, it benefits him because he can get sex when he wants damn your feelings...but how does that make you feel when its over?
3. you still love him and he tells you he's gonna marry you someday...but you're not even dating currently?
it sounds like he is just using you0