Really because this no activity thing started when we broke up
yeah, the guy has to now deal with the fact that you and him are not together, so his mind is racing between feeling sad, lonely, annoyed, mad, scared, pissed off, etc. so he's not going to want to have those feelings influence his online activity, or I dont think so anyway.
I don't get why he would feel sad anyways when he the one to claim that he doesn't have feelings for me anyways when he's actions told me differently
I reckon he may feel sad in knowing that you two are over. im pretty sure breaking up messes with both people involved.
If he had no feelings for me I don't get why he would care
id feel pretty sad if I was the one to tell someone else that I didn't love them anymore. how shitty is that, for those words to come out of your mouth, like you felt like you could love the person with all your heart in the begining, and now you're standing there, saying everything you wish would be never said to you, that the feelings are gone. I'd feel pretty crap personally.
Really? Be sad for a month or two
yeah, but the pain shifts from saying, because its already history. to readjusting, you miss the feelings, whether you dont say you feel the same or not, you miss them, and I guess that just eats away at you. that maybe you made the wrong decision, and those feelings that you miss, didn't actually go for you, but you just overlooked them. yeah the pain I reckon just moves around.
Well if you're thinking you made the wrong decision then you really did have feelings for that person.
ahhh, nope... because you are second guessing yourself, you may be completly right, but the fact that the relationship is gone, is when feelings, that may not have been there in the first place can appear. because in the rush of emotions both people get, you can't accuratly say that yes you did overlook those feelings or you are merely making them up because you dont know what you were feeling or you have some other issue.
So you really did have feelings in the first place
ahh nope, you are just second guessing your decision, because you dont feel as great as you thought you would after a break up, and now you can't trust yourself. there may not have been feelings. but the fact that you dont feel like you think you should makes you think twice anyway
Okay I don't feel sad eveytime I tell a guy no I won't go out with them or don't have feelings for them
ahh righto, I dont think I would too. but the "ex" is going to be experiencing more than just sadness, so he's going to be feeling more than one feeling.
Not if we weren't dating in the first place
these are two very different senarios though, one used to have major feelings, the other didn't. so there's going to be a difference in the response of both, one couldnt care, the other would be feeling shit about cutting it, and would still feel like maybe he was wrong, even if he wasn't, but mainly because he might of thought he would be all good like a week later but two months have passed.
What do you mean
I don't get why he would be mad or sad if he claimed he didn't have any feelings for me in the first place
Because guy's lie and you shouldn't always believe everything they say or do. I think in this case he could had lied about his feelings. The way he is acting now seems like to me he is hurt in some way and he is trying to break off all contact with you.
See so he did have feelings for me tho, right?Why would he lie about them?I don't know about the breaking contact because he still has all of our pictures on his Facebook
Yes I believe he did have feelings for you though. Maybe he lied to play hard to get or to play games. Another reason could be maybe he isn't open or upfront about his feelings or emotions for you and towards you. That is good he still has pictures up on Facebook. He probably still thinks about you. Because if not then he would just delete them.
Yeah well everything else is just immaturity?
Yes he does seem to be immature about it.
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Why do you think I do?
If I broke up with someone the last thing I would worry about is their social media... but that's just me... I would be moving on with my life which is the intent of the break up... not hanging around zombeing them. That's just me though...
I still love him that's why
You broke up with someone you still love? I apologize.. . this now is the bigger question.
Well because he claimed he didn't have any feelings for me even though he's actions say differently
Sometimes you just have to take someone at their word no matter what there actions are saying. He obviously isn't mature enough to handle feelings or a relationship if that is the case so sounds like you are better off. Or he is interested in someone else and has you blocked now on social media making it look like he is inactive. Just a guess... could be wrong.
Nah he didn't block me I can still see his stuff. What I think is he clearly had feelings for me but for some reason couldn't tell me. Don't you think that?
Couldn't tell you? So he doesn't have the balls to tell you he "has feelings" but has the balls to flat out say to you " he doesn't".. why would someone do that? Again, either way is this someone you want in your life? Wishy Washy? When it comes down to show up he folds? Just saying..
What does your last sentence mean? I agree with you he's not good for me, I just want to know that he had feelings for me and can't admit it for some reason
If he can't be a man when it comes to his feelings then he won't show up for you when your really need him... that's what that sentence meant. I wouldn't spend too much energy in trying to find out why... it could drive you insane lol
But see I think if he didn't have feelings he wouldn't be sad, hence the no activity on his social media. Right?
Why would he be sad? because he is a pussy and couldnt' tell you how he feels? That definitely would be the worse kind of sad alright.
Well is he?
I don't really know...
Like? Because this no activity started
When we broke up*
The other reason may be that he was not able to get over the breakup and getting irritated to talk to other or not too socialize.But he would become active after few days.
I don't get why he wouldn't be able to anyways he's the one that claimed he didn't have feelings for me even though he's actions told me differently
I think he had feelings for you!!! But claiming not to. Why did you break up with him?
Because he claimed that he felt nothing for me so I couldn't keep hanging out with him knowing that it wasn't going anywhere
You think he had feelings for me?
I think he had!!! That's why he may not be active on social sites.
Then I don't know why he would say that
Nope!! No idea!!
Oh I see
Well I broke up with him but he has no reason to be sad because he claimed he Had no feelings for me even though he's actions told me that he did
I am thinking worst case here mabey he dides
Even though he's actions claimed differently for the longest time
Yeah I don't know why he would do that