I knew it wasn't a good idea to get together so fast but we did anyway. And I regret it so much. We got together within 2 weeks of knowing each other, everything just happened so fast and I started falling for him within a month. Actually I did, I thought he was perfect. And he was until the last month of our relationship.
We were only together for 4 months but we talked everyday we were always together and if we weren't together we'd be calling each other.
He suddenly broke up with me out of the blue. I didn't understand because I thought we were happy. He seemed happy to me. I know I was happy. But now I see him flirting around and it really hurts me.
I know 4 months isn't long but I really did give him a big piece of my heart. I feel so stupid because I just got myself together before I met him. Now I cry every night, I just really need some solid advice right now.
Most Helpful Guy
First of all, you seem like a very kind person that deeply cares for the right people. It is not your fault for falling in love, that is our human nature. Things like these happen, our love is unanswered and this hurts us deeply. It might take some time to trust and adjust to the world again but thats gonna turn out alright! You have come as far as to let you be vulnerable like that and everything up to that are great achievements. If he does not love you back he is not worth yours. You are a person worth loving back, everyone is. He lost someone who cared about him, and thats his loss. Just take your time, you will find the right person!
Most Helpful Girl
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Maybe you didn’t intend to wind up in a relationship, but sometimes we have no control over what happens with our lives. When I’ve gotten my heart broken in the past, I always have the same method. I give myself one night to have a good cry. To mourn what was lost and lick my wounds. After that, I gotta move forward, and you should to. Hell, be proud of yourself. Because somehow, you were able to fall for someone again even when you thought your heart didn’t have the capacity for it. That’s amazing! This is going to hurt every day for a while, but each day it gets a bit easier! So no more beating yourself up for things you can’t change, and focus on the positives. You will get through this!