We've been dating for two weeks and recently she's been wanting to start having serious conversations about our pasts and things like that. She thinks its weird that I'm not really interested in her last serious boyfriend who she dated for almost a year. I think it's weird that she wants me to be interested in it.
She asked me if I had any questions about him and their relationship and I asked a few obvious ones like how long did it last and why did it end, but I have no idea what she thinks I should want to know about it. Am I just clueless? What should I ask her about it?
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If I was previously hurt in my last relationship if I found someone that I not only liked but was ready to open up again I would ef. would probably be inclined to talk about my past relationship too. Part of it would be because I don't want to get hurt again. It's like, here, take a look at my past experiances and if I haven't completely scared you away (and you are willing to share your thoughts/feelings with me) then maybe we should continue to pursue this.
Also she's been hurt which means she may be volunerable. I know when I'm feeling that way I want to share my feelings about my experiances with someone I care about because I am hoping that they want to share with me too. She wants someone who is willing to share with her too. Girls really like having those kind of serious intimate conversations because it brings people together. If you don't really care to know more about her, how she things, how she feels about things, etc you may not be what she's looking for. My advice, let yourself be open to talking and getting to know her on a deeper level. Listen to her, be attentive in conversation, don't be afarid of your feelings0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE