Should I ask him if we can take a break or?
Also I find it really hard to bring up my feelings and problems.
Talk to him about that
I don't think you need to take a break from your relationship, as there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it. You have a great guy who listens, and offers support. He knows how you are, and he is well aware of your anxiety, nerves, etc.
I think you DO need to work on yourself a bit more though. Figure out how to handle your insecurities and find ways to work towards over coming them. It will not happen within a few days, but over time. It's something you need to work on daily and keep persuing.
Maybe you''re feeling more insecure because your boyfriend has been busy, and occupied with other things, but that doesn't mean you need to give things a rest, unless of course its TOO much for you. Working on your self will benefit you. Try to figure out where these insecurities and where all this nervousness is coming from, and try to solve it.
Bringing up your feelings shouldn't be hard if you really share a great connection with this guy. Do you trust him? Does he comfort you and make you feel better? Is he someone you can rely on? If so, I'd recommend opening yourself up to him about these issues you're facing. There's no use going through them alone, when you clearly have someone there who cares an awful lot about you. If you really dont want to get him involved, then go to someone you trust. Family, friends, etc. Anyone you can converse with and share personal things with too. That person will support you, help you. and give you some reassurance.
I hope you're about to talk about this with your boyfriend though. The relationship is between you two, meaning you two should be able to talk and discuss things like this. Don't let your fears / worries / anxiety get in the way of something great.
Best wishes to you!
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