I dated my last girlfriend for 3 years before breaking up with her after a trip we took together. She told me and My family before our flight that she was going to move in with a guy from work. It made me furious and I told her I'd prefer if she wanted to move out that it be with me. Once we broke up she moved in with the guy and they were sleeping together and in a relationship only a week later. Now only 2 months after breaking up they are engaged.
Recently she came over just to hang out and watch a movie and we ended up having sex. First of all was she cheating on me before we broke up?
And Second, does it make me a bad person having slept with her now that she is engaged?
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Doesn't make you a bad person. Not your job to keep her from cheating on her guy. She was cheating on you, I don't doubt it. But You know what, who cares if she was? She's out of your life. You know what you need to do? Go get yourself checked, and once you come back clean, tell her to go fuck herself, block all forms of communication and move on with your life. Don't accept any invitation to the wedding. You don't need anything about her in your life whatsoever. Don't stick it to her, don't try to tell her she's a bad person, just get her out of your life. You don't need that shit in your life. You're way too young to have your heart tied in to a dumb broad who doesn't give a shit about you. I hate to say it, she doesn't give a shit about you, and she hasn't in a long time if she ever did, so don't talk to her. And deal with the fact that this whole thing hurts. Every time you feel like screaming and crying, grab a pillow and scream and cry in to it. Doesn't make you any less of a man to let your emotions run through you. Call your friends that you trust and tell them you're all sorts of messed up and you need to get out of the house and get your mind off of her. Start bettering your life. Are you in good shape? Get in better shape. Develop some goals. You said you wanted to move out with her eventually? Ask your friends if they wanna get an apartment with you, instead. Have a goddamn bachelor pad. Buy a kegerator and get a keg of beer and enjoy life. Go to a place where a lot of people hang out and start hitting on girls out of your league that you don't care about. Work on your ability to get a girl. If they reject you, who cares? You don't care about them anyways. Take what you learn and find the right one that puts a sparkle in your eyes.
Dude, fuck your ex girlfriend. You don't need that shit in your young life. She did you a favor. She did that before you moved in with her, got married and had kids. She could have done that after all that, you lose the place you live and see your kids only have the time. Yeah, fuck that.
Don't hang out with her, don't sleep with her, kick this psycho bitch whore to the curb. She's not your friend, she doesn't care about you, so fuck her. Get her out of your life.1