My boyfriend broke up with his ex over a year ago because she cheated. He has been with me ever since. But ever since she heard he was with me she has been trying to get him to talk to her or spend time with her again. At first she would text him or go to his dorm room. He moved in with me and changed his number. So now she e-mails him. At first it was long e-mails telling him that she is still in love with him and wants to be with him. She has said she will never stop trying to get his love back. This girl won't stop. We have been together over a year and she still tries to get a hold of him. In the messages she tells him how much she misses him, how she wants to meet and hangout with me and him, and how she hopes that he calls her when he is in town. She also brought up the fact that she has a apartment in their hometown. Why the heck would she mention these things? Does it sound like she is hoping that they will hook up if he ever comes into town? She has also told him that she is happy for him that he has found me and that I sound like a really nice person but I think she is just saying that in order to get on his good side? How do you get over a ex who just won't stop. I understand that he was her first and she was his first love but still sometimes you just have to grow up and move on.
How do you get rid of your boyfriend's ex?
What Guys Said 2
You don't get rid of his ex. He does.
She sounds like a real winner.
Here's a question for you: if she keeps trying to contact him, is he giving her some type of encouragement?1
Have him block her calls and emails and whenever she does get through, he should he should never answer her.0
What Girls Said 2
i don't know I think...
you should be friend with her more than your boyfriend
and invite her to join you guys sometimes... when she see how you are with your boyfriend ...
and your boyfriend loves you.. she will move on..
also you have to trust urr boyfriend about the stuffs like 'having apartment... and hooking up"..0
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