its often said by people to people who are heart-ached, "you just need to move on," "it just takes time," "you deserve better anyways," etc. the list goes on.
well let me have my input shoved on out there. I believe you never truly get over that person. for a while, you lose yourself because of this pain and you cause yourself this grief. you just want them back, you can't take your mind off them. no matter how hard you try, or how many tears you shed, or how busy you try and keep yourself to keep your mind off of them, you can't ever stop having feelings for them.
but, I do believe, when that final person comes around, the old person doesn't matter anymore. and I believe that's truly the only cure to a broken heart. that person is the one who heals you. I may sound like I'm contradicting myself here, but I feel as long as you don't have the right one, and there was that one girl or guy who broke your heart. its always going to be broken by them. and you'll always have the small part inside of you who still cares.
that's all I have to say.
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in some cases,
thats all you can do and its for the best [ yes ! another cliche ]
anyway, you can't sit around all day wondering why this person broke your heart
or how you'll live with yourself.
guess what ?
if it makes a person feel better,
they could always sing in front of their dearly beloved's window
and sing your heart out.
but that sounds silly, doesn't it ?