So a girl I was dating, she started talking to another girl while we were together.. and it started off being a "friend" thing, but then she tells me she loves her, and more than me.. she constantly tells me how this new girl makes her happy the way I used to.. but I don't make her happy anymore.. why would somebody pull me along for so long if they knew the I'd leave, or even never had the same feeling gs for me... tbh it seems like females think they can get away with things males can't, and her justification, her not loving me anymore, was enough to verify her flat out cheating on me... I don't know if I have a real question or if this is just a vent... but anyone have any thoughts?
Most Helpful Girl
Just because she thinks not loving you justifies cheating on you, doesn't mean it's actually justified. I have little to no respect for people that string others along knowing the person loves them and come up with dumb excuses to cheat. There's no good excuse to justify cheating. No one deserves what she pulled and I hope your heart doesn't harden over a person like that.2
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry that happened to you. I hope the next one treats you better. And this isn't a uniquely girl thing. Both sexes do it. There are shitty confused people on both sides. Honestly, if she's this way now, she's probably saving you future headaches. Imagine having to deal with this over and over with her.1