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I broke up with a guy I had been living with once. The year and a half before it had felt more like a friendship than relationship and I thought he would feel the same - that the relationship had run its course.
So when I sat down and spoke to him, I expected him to agree that it made more sense to end it and just be friends, but it seemed to take him by surprise and even though he was really cool about it, I could see how bad it hurt him.
It really upset me. I cried for three days on and off - not just because it hurt him, but because it was the end to another chapter of my life. That's always kind of sad. Even if you've been in a horrible relationship, which mine really wasn't, it's gonna hurt when you end it.