I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3years and 2months 2weeks ago. She initiated this break up. We are currently experiencing Long-Distance Relationship right now but she's back in the country during her summer break till late September. I've been apart with her for 9months and will face the same problem come late September. She cites the reason of the breakup as the feeling of our relationship is different and sometimes, she's just doing things out of obligation and she doesn't feel particularly happy when out with me. Furthermore, she said that she feels things are not right between us, which I assumed to be the different feeling of our relationship. She said that our relationship had just died off. But when I said goodbye to her, she told me she'll miss me.. We broke up on quite friendly terms. Can a relationship just die off just like that? It's really had for me to accept it. Any advice? I asked around and was thinking maybe she saw no future in us. How to make her see a future again? She had been contacting me be it on IM or sms every 3days or so since we broke up. What does this mean? She seemed quite happy and moved on over her blog does this mean she had moved on? Does girls move on that fast? I just met her for lunch last friday.. We seem to have quite a normal 1hour together. walked v close to each other with our arms brushing against each other frequently..I don't know.. She seemed.. Normal and okay.. I tried brushing her fringe in front of her and she winced a little and I hesitated before withdrawing my hand, but not before brushing her fringe but she gave me a smile after that.. oh. at the end, she remembered she still got a book with me then she said, 'like that I have no choice but to meet you one more time to get my book back' in a quite lazy and little reluctant tone. I told her that I can post it but she said 'never mind. I'll meet you one more time to get
my book back'. don't know whether it's due to post-lunch laziness or what... Please give me advice.. I really want to get her back but I don't know what to do or what is she thinking..
Like just now I coincidentally bumped into her with her girlfriend. She smiled and wave at me then I smiled back. But then, she texted me one word 'hello.'