My boyfriend and I have only been dating a month but I know he doesn't want kids and I can't imagine life without having a kid or two. Just wondering what you would do. would you go a head and end it before you got in too deep or see where it goes. And in the end I will do what I think I need to do for me but I was curious to what other people would do.
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18 to 24 is still pretty young when it comes to the idea of kids. It's possible that time will change his mind on things, but that's not something you should count on. CherryWill makes a good point: if you are trying to date seriously and this isn't something that can be compromised on, there's probably not a future here.
That being said, depending on your age, I wouldn't recommend worrying about finding the guy you're going to spend the rest of your life with right now. I say depending on your age because there is a big difference between 18 years old and 24 years old. I'm not one to lecture on how other people live their life, but you're got a long future ahead of you and might consider dating somewhat more casually for a while. There's no need to rush into the rest of your life right now.
But if you're considering ending it, you should talk with him about it. Ask yourself what's really important to you, and then find out what's really important to him. Don't look for a reason to end it, but don't stick around if it just isn't going to happen.
Just like you say though, in the end it's your call. Best of luck.0