Most Helpful Guy
I mean, this sounds messy and like you have never moved on from this guy. Are you still saying you want to talk to him as in try to date him? I mean, the guy just had a kid with another woman; this already has to many messy strings attached. You also make it sound like you two dont even talk or know each other, and it's been a year or so? This doesn't sound healthy. Try to talk to some other guys, not ones that have stated they aren't interested, and especially have a kid.
Most Helpful Girl
Move on. You missed your chance and he moved on. Sounds like he's busy being a father and getting on with life. You are never going to get that year of your life back, divvy waste any more time