My ex boyfriend and I were doing long distance and he got upset last time he came to visit because he felt like I was appreciating the fact that I would only get to see him for a couple days, and felt like I was treating him like he still lived in our home town still and I could see him all the time like usual. He broke up with me because he got upset, and doesn't see the point in doing long distance because it is not what he expects or wants it to be, but I think he is just holding a grudge against me and is throwing a bit of a fit convincing himself that thing won't change... but he said he's not over me and he misses me and he still loves me... so do you think the only reason he won't come back to me is because he's holding on to a bad memory?
How do I get him to forgive me?
What Guys Said 6
He probably wants out of the long distance thing. It doesn't work for everyone and it's not working for him and so he's frustrated because he likes you, but he doesn't want a long distance thing so he struggled with what to do. You gotta spend some time apart and not talking to each other so he can sort out his feelings and you should tell him that. Tell him to sort out his feelings and then you can talk, and give a good month.0
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Give him a bj and call it a day0
I think he is genuinely upset and in general long distant relationships are difficult to deal with. He might have said he brake ip, but he can't live without you. You guys need to communicate witheachother how you feel. Long distant relationships are not easy.0
What Girls Said 1
Forget him. Sound like a dude that could shove you down the stairs and say; wops im sorry i just overreacted. Bad times girl0
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